Thank you for your question!
In this Drama we cannot assume that what we “perceive” is “real” for others or apply to others as well. Duality shows us that suffering in extreme will lead into happiness and happiness in extreme into suffering. It is a circle. In that circle, you have different souls with different capacities, that is; different consciousness. Some are reaching the top of their lot in suffering and thus, ready for happiness. Others are still in their “comfort” level of suffering, so they will require more time. That is perfect. That teaches us that we are constantly dealing with perceptions. Therefore, my perception of suffering may not be the same for someone else.
Suffering is neither “good” nor “bad.” It is just what it is: suffering.